Planning a wedding—especially one rooted in

Jewish tradition—can feel both exciting and

overwhelming. Whether you're blending traditions,

celebrating an interfaith partnership, or creating

something entirely new, here are some thoughtful

resources to help you navigate the process with intention and joy.

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Jewish Wedding Guides & Tools

• 18Doors (formerly InterfaithFamily) Wedding Guide
  A supportive and inclusive guide for interfaith couples planning Jewish or Jew-ish weddings. Their wedding program builder is a fantastic tool, and their downloadable booklet is great to share with friends and family.

  https://18doors.org/wedding-program-builder/

  https://18doors.org/weddings-for-the-interfaith-couple/

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• Ketuv/Adva Designs Jewish Wedding Guide
  A beautifully designed guide outlining traditional Jewish customs and rituals, with helpful explanations for planning a ceremony that honors both tradition and creativity.

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• Ritualwell.org
  A treasure trove of rituals, readings, alternative blessings, and inclusive ceremony ideas. Whether you're looking for non-traditional Sheva Brachot, interfaith readings, or gender-inclusive language, this is a great place to explore.

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 Tips for Guests & Creating Inclusive Celebrations

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• What to Expect at a Jewish Wedding (18Doors)

  Help your guests feel comfortable and included—especially those unfamiliar with Jewish customs.

• Inclusive Wedding Planning

Learn how to make your celebration welcoming for guests of all backgrounds, genders, and identities.

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Green & Just Celebrations

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Celebrate Love. Honor the Earth. Uplift Your Values.

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Your wedding is more than a celebration of love—it's an opportunity to reflect your deepest values. As a rabbi committed to mindfulness, justice, and community, I love supporting couples who want to create meaningful, inclusive, and earth-conscious celebrations.

Whether you're looking to make small changes or plan a fully eco-friendly wedding, I'm here to help you bring your vision to life.

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Thoughtful Ways to “Green” Your Wedding

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Here are some mindful and practical ideas for weaving sustainability into your celebration:

• Choose a local venue to reduce travel emissions, or offer carpools or shuttles for guests.

• Use seasonal, locally-sourced food and minimize waste by donating leftovers or composting.

• Select flowers mindfully—locally-grown, seasonal, or even potted plants that can be replanted.

• Go digital with invitations and programs, or use recycled and plantable seed paper.

• Rent or reuse décor, linens, and attire instead of buying new whenever possible.

• Support ethical vendors, especially women-owned, LGBTQ+-owned, and BIPOC-owned businesses.

Let’s make your wedding a celebration of love, tradition, and our shared responsibility to the planet.

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​Support Local, Women-Owned, and Minority-Owned Vendors

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I believe in the power of community and justice. If you're looking for inclusive, ethical, and wonderful wedding vendors—from photographers to florists to musicians—I’d be happy to share recommendations for businesses I’ve worked with and trust.

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Have a question or a resource you'd like to share?
Let me know—I'm always learning from couples and community members and would love to include your favorite tools or readings here.